We often say around here that parents need to not only teach their children to know the standard of God’s word, they also must be taught how to love the standard. That is an essential bit of pastoral wisdom.
I want to give some practical pointers on how to actually do this. If I were to tell a group of advanced mathematics teachers that they need to not only teach their students the finer parts of calculus but they need to teach their students to love calculus they very reasonably might inquire, “How do we do that?!”
The fact of the matter is that if you delight in something, it isn’t hard to confer that delight. If you delight in something you love pointing out all the subtle joys to be found in that thing. Chefs delight in the various seasonings and how they can be mingled gloriously. A baseball enthusiast will tell you all about the glories of Nolan Ryan’s fastball. Again, true delight must be present in order to spread that delight to others. So then, you must be exuberant in your delight in God’s Word, in God’s people, and above all in God Himself.
This ought to show up in how you sing both here at church and in your home; how you run your family Bible studies; how you address sin and disobedience and reconciliation. Is God’s Word the joy and rejoicing of your heart?
Personal delight is one thing, but then should come consistency. Your joy in the things of the Lord will draw your children into that delight. But only if you are consistent in your joy. A river without banks is a damaging flood. So let your joy in God flow in the channels of obedient leadership of your children. This will bring them to love the standard, which is Christ.